Every Woman Free
Courage + Confidence + Love Coaching
What if you could finally…
Free yourself from fear, insecurity and self-doubt.
Rise up in your Radiance.
Discover your unique essence + surrender to the power of your deep Truth.
Step securely into the life you design by Desire.
Move in the bold confidence of your intrinsic, irreducible Beauty.
Become the Radiantly Loved Woman you know you were born to be.
It’s been said that everything you desire is on the other side of fear.
What if you didn’t have to face the fear alone?
I know the desire for
a fresh start
the clarity, courage + confidence
it takes to leap into the life you were born to live.
And, I know the (secret) longing for deep, fulfilling + lasting love, and how to get there.
Beyond your fears + resistance, there is
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Clarity
This is the sacred path. Together, we can enter the landscape of your interior world: your heart, your mind, your soul. Clarity comes when we wade through the waves of chaos into the stillness from which truth arises, illuminating illusions and setting us free.
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Courage
As we see the Truth, we are made aware of the lies we have believed. Together, we can enter the depth of courage, rise above self-doubt and enter the commitment to ourselves that is required to live happy + free.
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Confidence
You’re not actually stuck - you’re thinking stuck. Let’s get to the Truth so you can (re)build the confidence that sets you and your body free as you exude your unique life essence in radiant joy and love. You’ll learn the art of melting fears + projected obstacles in the Divine power of Peace.
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The Love You've Always Wanted
This love isn’t about waiting for the right person to come along. The magic happens when you heal the cycle that causes you to yo-yo in love. This cycle causes the pendulum to swing from no love, to big love to big loss. Heal it and you’ll see the path to true love.
More than ever, women are feeling the yearning to live true to their inner beauty, their heart’s desires…to arise as She.
Fully alive, radiant with love, bold with joy, proud to BE and bringing forth the gift she is to this world.
Hi, I’m Colette
Lead Program Director + Master Coach
For over 25 years, I’ve been in the deep pursuit of being a Loved Woman. For most of that time, I wasn’t - not in my experience or belief. Oh, sometimes I’d get there, nearly, just to watch the pendulum swing back again. The love being offered, the love I felt I’d finally found would all soon evaporate, as if it were never true at all. Once again, I’d be crushed, enfolded into the depths of my broken heart.
Deep down, all I wanted was to be loved - radically, wildly, completely. Yet, over and over, I felt the incredibly searing pain of being unloved.
I knew it wasn’t supposed to be this way.
In those moments of profound pain, I couldn’t see where my ever-winding path was taking me. I didn’t know that to be loved - truly, madly, deeply - I had to become Her: The Radiantly Loved Woman.
Over those 25+ years, the winding path of becoming took me through cycles of layered healing, including:
true freedom = wholeness
embodied power and confidence
sensual-sexual liberation and consecration
humility, honor and devotion
conviction + authority to stand within myself and for really mattered
opening to be seen + embracing my essence as true beauty
unveiling myself in authentic vulnerability, putting shame to shame
acknowledging my heart’s desires and my unique perspectives
This required yielding to the process of unlearning things like embodied trauma (somatic disregulation/compensation), self-preservation (via shrinking, fleeing or fighting), and hiding myself for fear of rejection or attraction, both of which I didn’t always have solid skills to navigate without collapse, coercion or chameleoning…
My winding path of unlearning in deeper and deeper layers was interlaced with deep pain. I was met by love’s snaking scalpel spiraling inward into the depths of my psychosomatic self, pruning my distorted perspectives. When I finally surrendered to it, I melted into the reality that this pain + true love’s perspective was setting me free - heart, mind, body and soul.
The former internal support system I developed in reaction to pain had been “holding me together,” but it was riddled with toxic cycles that only kept me from the love I desperately longed for.
I came to understand the fracture within which could only keep me from being a loved woman. Some call this fracture The Sacred Wound. When we heal this inward divide and return to harmony, we become She - The Radiantly Loved Woman. Only then can we magnetically align with the Love we always knew was meant to be.
I have personally walked (and continue to walk) the winding path of unlearning, undoing and outgrowing the psychosomatic structures of the pseudo-self, with all its restricting belief patterns and survival+fear based mechanistic behaviors. These patterns and behaviors keep us stuck in the toxic cycles of unfulfilling and unhealthy relationships (of all kinds), and ultimately with ourself and our experience of life.
The cycles that form as a result of this split are “toxic” because they directly induce further harm and poison our attempts to love and be loved, which is in direct opposition to our deepest longing.
I know firsthand the habituation of fear, self-doubt, and emotional entanglement that kept me living a constant lie, swinging from living a dead-inside life to the acceleration of intensity in a driven attempt to come back to life, yet ultimately feeling stuck, powerless, confused and clueless, especially about love.
Having committed to the path of true wholeness, of healing this inward split (that one that drives the crazy cycle of pushing love away), I am deeply humbled. It has taken everything I had and courage I didn’t know I had. My personal heroine’s journey has turned deep wounds into deep wisdom and afforded me dynamite insights and compassionate strategies to help you do the same.
Telling yourself the TRUTH of who you are, what you most value + desire and stepping up into becoming She is the only way to truly experience freedom, wholeness, and deepest personal fulfillment.
It is my honor to offer nurture and support to women as they journey through this profound and transcendent reclamation. Having been to the abyss of my own self-made hell and back, I know how to be with you as you confront your deepest fears, rediscover your truest desires, take the (baby + big) steps toward your most meaningful, vibrant, and satisfying life - one you are proud to own and display as your wild and wonderful creation, the life that is the expression of you, the Radiantly Loved Woman.
You were born to be Radiant with Love, to take our breath away, to humble us up, and to invite us to receive ourselves as loved, truly beautiful and worthy of praise.
It would be my honor to support you.
What if you allowed yourself to truly be seen, to open+soften into your unique elegance, grace and supple power?
Every Woman Free
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“Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear.”
— Ambrose Redmoon
“Life shrinks and expands in proportion to one’s courage.”
— Anaïs Nin
“Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.”
— Jim Rohn
“You must do the thing you think you cannot do.”
— Eleanor Roosevelt