How To Leave
A Courage + Strategy Program for Women
What if you could give yourself the gift of freedom?
What is HTL?
How To Leave is a 7 Week Program for women who feel a growing inner knowing that staying in their current relationship is no longer true for them.
Think of this program as a metamorphosis from fear/self-doubt to courage + radiance.
The deep knowing that this relationship is no longer right/true may show up in many forms (a pulling sensation to a different life, barren emptiness, feeling unloved-hated, being controlled/abused, feeling trapped, etc.), but the constant theme is a knowing that to stay in this relationship is to live a lie.
Living a lie = feeling like both the relationship and your life is a dead-end not the dream life you know you desire.
Whether you feel called to leave, or you’re still questioning if you should stay/leave, or you already know you’re done, but are struggling to find the courage + need support for the next steps - this program is your loving, hand-holding guide to clarity, strength, hope, and ultimately to freedom.
Can you relate?
“I felt like I was walking on eggshells, afraid to speak my truth because of his reactions. But in swallowing my voice, I lost touch with my own happiness.”
“I felt like I was drowning in fear, afraid to leave because I didn’t believe I could make it on my own. Staying was suffocating the woman I once was and I knew I needed help.”
“I stayed thinking the financial stability was better for my children, but in doing so, I deprived them of the gift of having a happy and capable mother.”
“I was so focused on loving him and making sure that he was happy. When I took any time for myself, he would get upset, so I would stop. I felt like I was constantly trying to help him feel better, while deep down I felt drained and unhappy.”
You are not alone.
THE TRUTH IS:
You CAN become the Radiantly Loved Woman you dream of.
Does this sound like you?
All I ever wanted was to fall in love and live happily ever after. I don’t know why I am here again feeling unloved, unseen, unfulfilled.
I feel so misunderstood and unmet in my relationship.
I sometimes feel guilty for wanting more, but I also know I can’t keep living like this.
I know if I stay, I will never experience the deepest desire of my heart: to fall in love with the love of my life and to have the total union that lasts a lifetime.
Deep down, I know something isn’t right, but I keep second-guessing myself or talking myself out of what I know.
I’ve tried everything—talking, compromising, staying quiet, praying—but the invisibly quality I know should be there still isn’t. The ache of the missing element doesn’t go away.
I’m afraid of what leaving might mean—financially, emotionally, or socially.
I worry about being alone or starting over, but staying feels like I’ve already lost myself.
I know I want to leave with clarity and confidence in my decision, not out of panic, reaction, or hurt - even though I am hurt.
I used to think leaving was wrong. I really wanted a love that lasted, but my heart is telling me this isn’t it.
I need practical steps, emotional support, and a path forward that actually makes sense - one I can feel safe taking.
I’m ready to stop being held back in fear. I am ready to step into the woman I desire to be - even though I still feel afraid.
The How To Leave program is for women who are willing to take radical responsibility for their patterns of beliefs + behaviors that have attracted and allowed relationships in which they were hiding their true self, living superficial, or experiencing repeated mistreatment, neglect, or rejection.
Please be aware: This program is NOT for women who want to put the focus on their partner. (There are plenty of programs that will help you find out what is wrong with him and why he is the way he is, etc. That is NOT what we are doing in this course.)
Do you -
Feel the deep soul calling to leave—the kind that won’t quiet down, no matter how much you try to ignore it
Are you at the point of no return? Where your soul is leading you and you can’t hold back anymore?
Know you can no longer live a lie
Are you ready to finally live in truth, and in its power as the fullness of who you are?
Know staying means you are betraying yourself, shrinking, and living a life that isn’t truly yours
Are you ready to live the truth, no matter what it costs?
Recognize that this relationship has been a place of hiding and avoiding owning your life and stepping into your truest expression
Are you ready to take full responsibility to create and live your most authentic life?
Feel ready to stop hiding, waiting and making excuses for why you can’t step into your power
Are you ready to see who you are when you unveil your true self?
Feel ready to emerge fully, to be seen, to take up space, and to reclaim the parts of yourself you abandoned or cut off
Are you ready to experience your BEST life - the life of your dreams? Are you ready to become the woman of your dreams, whose dreams really do come true?
Welcome to HTL.
Welcome to HTL.
A Courage + Strategy Program for Women
Get clarity now with instant access to The HTL Program.
You have what it takes to leave the relationship you’ve felt stuck-trapped-lifeless in.
Take the first step and start building the courage and confidence you need to create the life + relationship you truly long for. The life you desire begins with embracing the courage to be your authentic truth, power and beauty.
Join the community of women rising up, answering their soul’s call to become the Woman they were born to be.
Radiant, Loved, Empowered, Fulfilled, Sovereign and Seen.
What miracle awaits your ask?
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In this program, you'll discover faith and courage.
You’ll gain the awareness, the strength and the tools you need to leave behind the life you can no longer settle for.
You don't need to do this alone. In Sisterhood, you can be seen, held, known and supported in truly life-giving and miraculous ways. Feel nurtured and supported as you bring your dreams into reality. Step into a world where faith fortifies your path forward in the exact places fear once held you back. Step into the future that you design and create the life you’ve longed to live.
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You'll experience the powerful shift of reclaiming your voice.
Say goodbye to settling and hello to better than you could have imagined! As you embark on this journey of self-discovery, you will be amazed at the incredible and powerful transformations that await you.
Step into authentic power and embrace your extraordinary new life, as you become the extraordinary woman you truly are.
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Join a sisterhood of courageous women choosing to live - radiant, loved and seen.
This program isn’t just about leaving, it’s about LIVING your highest and happiest life. The best is yet to come (if you choose it).
Get ready to rewrite the story of you. We are here to support, guide and celebrate you every step of the way. We’re truly stronger together.
“I was living a lie for nearly ten years. I’d been convincing myself that ‘it was okay’. I was in my 40’s when I finally got up the courage to leave. I was worried that I was too old to start over - but I knew if I didn’t, I would be dead inside.
I’d kept everything hidden inside. I see now how this never allowed me to feel understood, safe and supported.
I knew I needed support in order to truly make this happen, and I was able to clarify the path that felt right to me. Even after I left, I wanted to make sure I didn’t fall back on old patterns. I really wanted the new me to solidify in every way. So I continued to seek like-minded women to journey with who would hold me accountable to BE the woman I desire to be. They are truly God-sent.
Now, I can say, “I did it!” I am so proud of myself for each and every step I took to make it happen - even the little ones kept me moving forward. If you are on the fence about leaving your current relationship but you feel that pull inside, listening to this program will help you gain the clarity you need. If I could do it, so can you!
“Leaving was the hardest decision I ever had to make - not because I wasn’t sure if I wanted to. I just didn’t know how I’d do it! I knew the obvious - get a job, get an apartment, etc., but even these simple things felt so overwhelming.
It was an challenging emotional journey for me, but I learned how to stabilize myself, how to encourage myself, and how to ask + receive support from others. I felt my own strength rise in a way it never has in my whole life! I had a bit of a rocky start, but I just kept going back to the truth. I actually surprised myself at what I was able to do!
And the best part is - I really, really like myself, which I couldn’t have honestly said before now.
“I would leave and go back every time he seemed to change a little - I was so afraid of hurting him. I told myself I really wanted to make it work, but I was lying to myself and deep down I knew it.
I can see now that my (secret) desire was to have a completely different life.
I took a baby step forward not knowing if I would actually ever be able to do it, but I wanted to at least try. Today, I am happier than I could have ever imagined. I learned how to really see my own heart and to know what I deeply desire. I also learned how to back myself as the greatest gift of self-love. I honestly didn’t think I would ever be this happy. I am so glad I gave myself that chance.
What does freedom mean to you?
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Imagine waking up each morning with joy, peace, excitement, and purpose, knowing that you are creating the life of your dreams. Imagine the sense of fulfillment and satisfaction you’d feel living from your truth, from your authentic wholehearted desires and taking inspired actions towards your goals and dreams.
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See yourself living radiant, authentically powerful, fulfilled, loved and seen. Imagine how good it feels to finally be living in your true heart’s desires - living as the woman you truly are: supported, capable, joyful, and wonder-filled. How good would it feel to look back on this moment as the moment that changed everything?
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Imagine: You ARE the woman of your dreams. You freed yourself from the prison of fear and self-doubt, stepped into your power, purpose and vision -took ownership of your life, your love story, your finances, and your future. What if you knew you were not alone, that you were supported, that you would make it, that you would have the love + life you dream of?
I had to dig deep - REALLY deep.
I’m talking deeper than I ever thought I could, and
I did the hard, hard work. I did it when I was terrified.
I did it when I felt completely alone, when I felt like I had nothing and no one.
So, trust me when I say, I know what it’s like to feel that you have no one who really understands you, your life, your silent pain or your secret desires.
I know the superhuman level of courage it takes to leave.
I know the level of commitment to yourself that’s required to see this through.
And - the best part is - I know that miracles really do happen when you choose to love and back yourself in this way.
Hello gorgeous soul,
I wrote this program with you in my heart, mind and soul.
I’ll never forget the exact moment I saw it (and you):
I was standing in the kitchen, praying (pleading really) - wishing I had a Mama, a wisdom woman who could comfort and encourage me, who could help me. I desperately wished I had a Mama-Mentor-Soul Midwife-Medicine Woman who could show me the way, to be the support, encouragement, nurture and community I wished I had when I was leaving.
I’d felt SO broken-hearted, stuck, alone, scared, stressed, overwhelmed and in total survival mode - yet I knew I had to leave (again).
My soul was stepping up whether I was ready or not.
And oh! How I longed for a woman who knew the way, to hold my hand, to hear my struggles, to remind me I could do this. I wasn’t seeking for someone to do it for me or make my choices.
I wanted to be seen, known, held and encouraged by someone who truly cared about me.
Someone who would be there with me while I walked this path, while I grew my “hinds feet,” while I took my heroine’s journey.
I wanted a soul Mama-Sister to witness me become the Radiant Woman of my dreams, to help me get back up when I fell, and to celebrate the strength and beauty I became in the process.
I didn’t have that when I started on this path (and restarted a few times for good measure).
My heart broke that day as I realized there were women like me, like you - wishing and praying for the same thing.
My heart broke at the thought that you would suffer or struggle or hurt or be scared or feel alone.
I’ve literally poured my heart and soul - sweat and tears - into this program so you wouldn’t have to do this alone, or worse - that you would never take the path out into the freedom and aliveness your heart longs to experience - the life of your dreams as the woman of your dreams.
You are not alone, and you don’t have to do this alone.
Let’s get wild. Let’s get happy and free. Let’s become the Radiantly Loved Women we know we were destined to be.
Let’s reclaim our truth, our voice, our authentic power, our choices, our unique beauty, and let’s author our story according to our deeply beautiful hearts and our truest yearnings and desires. And, let’s come together in community as sisters - because we are.
Hi, I’m Colette
Lead Program Director + Master Coach
For over 25 years, I’ve been in the deep pursuit of being a Loved Woman. For most of that time, I wasn’t - not in my experience or belief. Oh, sometimes I’d get there, nearly, just to watch the pendulum swing back again. The love being offered, the love I felt I’d finally found would all soon evaporate, as if it were never true at all. Once again, I’d be crushed, enfolded into the depths of my broken heart.
Deep down, all I wanted was to be loved - radically, wildly, completely. Yet, over and over, I felt the incredibly searing pain of being unloved.
I knew it wasn’t supposed to be this way.
In those moments of profound pain, I couldn’t see where my ever-winding path was taking me. I didn’t know that to be loved - truly, madly, deeply - I had to become Her: The Radiantly Loved Woman.
Over those 25+ years, the winding path of becoming took me through cycles of layered healing, including:
true freedom = wholeness
embodied power and confidence
sensual-sexual liberation and consecration
humility, honor and devotion
conviction + authority to stand within myself and for really mattered
opening to be seen + embracing my essence as true beauty
unveiling myself in authentic vulnerability, putting shame to shame
acknowledging my heart’s desires and my unique perspectives
This required yielding to the process of unlearning things like embodied trauma (somatic disregulation/compensation), self-preservation (via shrinking, fleeing or fighting), and hiding myself for fear of rejection or attraction, both of which I didn’t always have solid skills to navigate without collapse, coercion or chameleoning…
My winding path of unlearning in deeper and deeper layers was interlaced with deep pain. I was met by love’s snaking scalpel spiraling inward into the depths of my psychosomatic self, pruning my distorted perspectives. When I finally surrendered to it, I melted into the reality that this pain + true love’s perspective was setting me free - heart, mind, body and soul.
The former internal support system I developed in reaction to pain had been “holding me together,” but it was riddled with toxic cycles that only kept me from the love I desperately longed for.
I came to understand the fracture within which could only keep me from being a loved woman. Some call this fracture The Sacred Wound. When we heal this inward divide and return to harmony, we become She - The Radiantly Loved Woman. Only then can we magnetically align with the Love we always knew was meant to be.
I have personally walked (and continue to walk) the winding path of unlearning, undoing and outgrowing the psychosomatic structures of the pseudo-self, with all its restricting belief patterns and survival+fear based mechanistic behaviors. These patterns and behaviors keep us stuck in the toxic cycles of unfulfilling and unhealthy relationships (of all kinds), and ultimately with ourself and our experience of life.
The cycles that form as a result of this split are “toxic” because they directly induce further harm and poison our attempts to love and be loved, which is in direct opposition to our deepest longing.
I know firsthand the habituation of fear, self-doubt, and emotional entanglement that kept me living a constant lie, swinging from living a dead-inside life to the acceleration of intensity in a driven attempt to come back to life, yet ultimately feeling stuck, powerless, confused and clueless, especially about love.
Having committed to the path of true wholeness, of healing this inward split (that one that drives the crazy cycle of pushing love away), I am deeply humbled. It has taken everything I had and courage I didn’t know I had. My personal heroine’s journey has turned deep wounds into deep wisdom and afforded me dynamite insights and compassionate strategies to help you do the same.
Telling yourself the TRUTH of who you are, what you most value + desire and stepping up into becoming She is the only way to truly experience freedom, wholeness, and deepest personal fulfillment.
It is my honor to offer nurture and support to women as they journey through this profound and transcendent reclamation. Having been to the abyss of my own self-made hell and back, I know how to be with you as you confront your deepest fears, rediscover your truest desires, take the (baby + big) steps toward your most meaningful, vibrant, and satisfying life - one you are proud to own and display as your wild and wonderful creation, the life that is the expression of you, the Radiantly Loved Woman.
You were born to be Radiant with Love, to take our breath away, to humble us up, and to invite us to receive ourselves as loved, truly beautiful and worthy of praise.
It would be my honor to support you.
This Program Is…
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A Sacred Path.
This path is your sacred heroine journey. It’s fire - the flames of a woman passionate about living fully alive.
Together, we can rise above self-doubt, increasing our courage and confidence. Receive support in the HTL community and strengthen your to commit to YOU.
I (Colette) invite you to take my hand as you step onto this sacred path, and I promise I’m committed to walking it, too.
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Both Mindset and Strategy
You’re not stuck, you’re thinking stuck. Let’s get to the exact thoughts that get you unstuck.
You’re right where you need to be to create your new life (and be YOU). This isn’t all mindset talk - we get into the nitty gritty how to’s so you can move forward, plan in hand. Let’s seek the GOD strategy so you can know you never walk alone.
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Your Soul's Calling
This is your call to come out of the shadows of hiding the real you. You truly can have the life you desire, the stability, radiant joy, true beauty…
You didn’t come this far to only come this far. You didn’t get here to settle here. You came to be a strong, capable, beautiful, powerful, whole woman. You came to become the radiant woman of your dreams.
What You’ll Get
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Intro Session
Full length introduction to the framework of the HTL Program PLUS a session in itself on the following: What is actually keeping you stuck? What does it really take to leave? And, how good life can truly become when you back your own truth.
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6 Lessons
Six Full length audios designed to build upon each other and lay the foundations of stability, security, and ever deepening courage, confidence and trust in your internal guidance system. Together, we separate truth from lies so that you can see clearly, navigate successfully, and walk proudly each step of the way.
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4 Bonus Meditations
Four Bonus Meditations to comfort, encourage, calm, ground, inspire and invite you to explore the possibilities as you begin to allow yourself to dream again, to listen deeply to your own heart, and to come into the safety of being held by the ever-present, everlasting arms of TRUTH+LOVE.
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Guided Inner Work
Each lesson comes with specific assignments and journal prompts to take you deeper into you. The answers to your questions come from aligning with your deepest and highest truths, and these assignments are designed to facilitate the clarification you seek.
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Clarity, Courage, and Confidence
In just 7 weeks, you will feel a deep and profound shift in your personal knowing, in your trust in that knowing - both in your intuition and in Life (God). You will feel the way before you clearing as the fear-fog clears. You will feel your confidence rising as you see the life you desire is truly possible and haveable.
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Exclusive Pricing 1:1
Special discount rates for one on one coaching packages, good for up to one year after your HTL Program purchase. I know the irreplaceable value of support in a process of change like this, and I am deeply grateful to have the opportunity to stand with and for you on your growth journey.
The Lessons
The Introduction:
This call sets the framework for the How To Leave Program, where I introduce the six upcoming sessions and give you a bonus sneak peek at the following:
What is actually keeping you stuck?
What does it really take to leave?
The most common reasons women stay against their own knowing.
How good life can truly become when you leap.
What you can expect next and throughout the program
Lesson 1: Leaving the Knot
The first step to leaving, and the only first step that works to leave the cycle for good. “Guaranteed!” Well, I can’t actually guarantee that you will see this through. Only you can determine what you’ll ultimately choose. After all, you are free to return to your misery, but don’t. Please don’t do that!
If you don’t do this (as in: the other really important thing you should know), you will fall back into the relationship, back into the same unfulfilling and unhealthy dynamic, recreate that crazy mess with another person, or shrink your life down to merely surviving. (Picture hanging on for dear life…Okay, now stop because that is NOT a pretty picture.)
The only way to actually break free from the cycle.
What leaving the relationship is actually about for you.
The NOT you. Together we’ll meet the person you became. We will honor her path and bid her adieu.
Lesson 2: Truth Be Told…
The first and most important step to move from disempowered/powerless to empowered/powerful
Uncovering the secret agendas at play - those sneaky, covert patterns underpinning everything and holding you stuck like the superglue of the universe!
Getting crystal clear on the lies you’ve bought that have you confused, stuck and uncertain about what really makes you happy
What happens when we betray ourselves?
Seeing our own blind spots, so we can actually tell ourselves the truth (because what is true sets us free)
What makes us usable and abusable, and how to powerfully shift this dynamic
Lesson 3: Thinking Unstuck
How our thinking sticks us and keeps us stuck. And, how to change our thinking so we can change our life
Why having our own back is vital to being happy and free. And, how to actually back yourself with Grace and Grit
Strategizing with God to find the BEST way for you! And, dealing with the opinions (cough! judgments) of others
Why sticky thinking keeps us in the loop of suffering
3 ways to get unstuck in our thinking
How to actually shift from compromising your joy and aliveness to living it freely and fully
How to stop negotiating for the status quo (ie. less than your heart desires)
Lesson 4: Life Support 101
Ask and Receive - how to actually do it.
God = Provision; that means God is PRO your vision. Pro you!
Think: Life actually, really loves me, and I live in kind, caring and compassionate Universe. (Did you just describe yourself?!)
If leaving was easy you would have done it a long time ago, right? I know it has felt so hard! So let me show you how to make this look easy BE ease.
Lesson 5: Firm Foundations
Practical Resources and Planning: Baby steps count! (And, it’s okay to cry like a baby)
How to choose what actually works for you
Courage = the new confidence
Self-esteem boosting is better than botox (and botox helps 😉)
Is Self-Respect the new self-love?
How to bounce back fast from a slip into the old not-you (Who dat?!)
Lesson 6: Falling In Love Again…
Regardless of where you’re at with falling in love, relationally speaking - you DO desire to fall in love with life, with YOUR life, with the woman you get to be, the vision of your future and with your day-to-day experience of living…
Surviving is not the dream life, babe. I know the past has hurt and that digging deep to look at your truest desires and opening up BIG can feel anywhere from exciting to terrifying. Let’s go there together.
How to open and dream again (and why this is absolutely vital for you to ooze your gorgeousness).
How to glisten like a radiant goddess and BE the incredible, beautiful, magnificent, divine woman you are in your highest truth.
And, of course, how to fall in love without losing your mind, your focus, your clarity, your stability, and everything you worked so hard for (remember, think: ease)…
Common Concerns
What if I am afraid to leave?
You are not alone in feeling that. Every woman who has wanted to change the course of her life has felt fear. The truth is, the fear is already there even if you don’t leave. It just doesn’t get agitated until the light of your true desires starts to shine on its ugly, relentless grip.
The GOOD NEWS is that you don’t have to leave until you are ready. This program has the power to move you from confusion, self-doubt and frozen fear to clarity, courage and confidence in just 7 weeks. In fact, you will even notice changes after the first lesson! But, if you want to take it slowly, you can begin to immerse yourself in the beauty of the inner transformation now. Whether you leave now, later or never (some women rediscover their first love for their partner as a result of a deep dive into inner healing), you can begin the gentle journey into your heart - into your truth, your desires, your hurts, and the lies that have kept you from truly living.
You can start with even a baby step towards feeling safer, stronger, and clearer - and with that, more peace in your body, heart, and mind.
What if I don’t think I can do it?
Every woman who has struggled with the idea of leaving an undesirable dynamic has had to face self-doubt. And self-doubt is a powerful tool used against yourself, to stop you from stepping toward your desires. The old internal self-preservation system is simply trying to keep you safe. What you know, you can predict, control or navigate. What you don’t know, requires new adaptations, skills, and growth.
You can take baby steps towards your desires. Every little step counts - even if they are only internal shifts to begin with. You never have to push yourself beyond what you are truly ready for, and when you’re ready for more - you will have developed a trust and a confidence in your own inner guidance system to know what to do and when to do it. And, as a reminder, you are not alone.
Help and support ARE available for you.
What if the unknown feels overwhelming?
Overwhelming is a word we use to describe a cocktail of feelings that arises in our bodies with certain sets of incoming data. When we break the data down into smaller, more manageable pieces, we can begin to dismantle the BIG BAD feeling of overwhelm. I know it can activate a paralyzing/can’t do this sensation inside and out, and I also know there is a way through the freeze, the panic, the collapse.
The HTL Program is a gentle introduction into the possibilities that you have available. Even listening to the program sessions can begin to dismantle the psychological and physiological prison of overwhelm, anxiety, fear, and intimidation.
You truly can grow deep roots of courage, confidence and consistency - embodied truth in action, and together, we can lay the solid foundation upon which you can build the life you desire.
Together, we can anchor your heart, mind, and body in safety, stability, and unbreakable faith.
What if I fail?
Failure is often on par with public rejection and humiliation. In a world of propped up social statuses, failure can even seem unbearable. In the HTL Program, we look at the idea of failure from different perspectives to discover what each individual truly believes about such opportunities of learning and growth, rather than a belief that failure is a reflection of one’s worth or value or capability. It’s not the failure itself that feels most devastating, but all the meaning and conclusions we have attached to the idea of failing.
True failure is to stop living forward. True failure is to stop living.
Anything shy of that, is progress.
What if I _____?
What if I _____?
In the How To Leave Program, we will go into all your what ifs until you reach the place of inner knowing, clarity, confidence and peace.
What ifs are there for a reason. Your unique inner ask is not invalidated here. Your voice of inquiry is encouraged forward so we can look at the real ask behind the what ifs from all sides. The HTL Program is fundamentally rooted in establishing trust in your inner guidance system AND in clarifying the origin of the thoughts you are having in order to move you without resistance from fear to faith (knowing, trust, confidence, assurance). We can honor our inner inquiry and we don’t have to let the what ifs create a circular wall around us either.
“Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear." - George Addair
“It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful."
- Alan Cohen
Take hold of your heart desires.
“Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something is more important than fear.”
—Ambrose Redmoon
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”
— Anaĩs Nin
“Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.”
— Jim Rohn
“You must do the thing you think you cannot do.”
— Eleanor Roosevelt
FAQs
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The audio sessions, meditations and guided assignments are yours to keep. You will receive access instructions after purchasing the program and the one-time purchase fee gives you lifetime access to the audio and pdf files. If we ever change the hosting platform for HTL, you will be notified and any new access instructions will be provided.
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Starting now - when you're not ready - is ideal. This allows you to gently immerse yourself in the beauty, wisdom, support, inner guidance assignments and practical tools without any additional pressure.
Whether you leave now, later or never (some women rediscover their first love for their partner as a result of a deep dive into inner healing), you can begin the gentle journey into your heart - into your truth, your desires, yes, even your hurts, and the lies that have kept you from truly living.
Even a baby step - towards feeling safer, stronger, and clearer - allows for more peace in your body, heart and mind.
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Join the HTL Private Community! Get full access to the private channels for bonus content, Q/A, sister support and more!
Private coaching with Colette is an option at anytime throughout your HTL journey.
As an added bonus, HTL members get exclusive discount pricing on 1:1 coaching packages for up to a year from your date of purchase.
You are not alone. Help and support are here when you need them.
For technical support, email support@everywomanfree.com
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The HTL Private Community includes: Bonus HTL Content, Surprise Lives, a place to submit Questions, Group Chat Channel, Community Support + Celebration, Introductions and Announcements, as well as DM options. Colette will be in the community to offer further insight and support as well as the EWF Team.
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Yes! There is an continued LIVE group coaching option for those in the program or who've completed the HTL Program, as well as private coaching for your unique path and process to becoming the woman of your dreams.
Additional programs will also be added to support you on your journey, and you’ll be first to hear when they are live.
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I love this question, especially because it makes me giggle. You and I both know (that almost no one actually asks this question) and that the results come from the work each individual puts into their own inner work and outer externalized actions.
This program is designed wholeheartedly to support you in developing both your inner clarity and your action focused steps because for women like I was (and perhaps like you) these are the two weaker areas that keep us stuck in the cycle of settling for less than we desire and know is possible.
I love this program and show up fully because I am committed to my LIFE. It would be my honor to guide you, support you, and celebrate the results you create with the choices you make.
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In the HTL program and private community, we discuss mindsets that keep us stuck, the lies we tell ourselves that blind us to the path we desire to walk, the woman we desire to be and the live we desire to live. We look at our fears, our desires, our past pain, and our future longings.
We heal, we grow, we soften, we strengthen. We become more courageous, confident and consistent. We examine our choices, our thoughts, our feelings and our beliefs. We choose to chart out the qualities of the women we desire to be, and we look at how we can move toward becoming SHE.
I’ll tell you a little secret - HTL isn't as much about leaving something or someone, as it is about becoming the women of our dreams.
So if you are doubtful, you are in the perfect place to begin the journey of developing trust in you, and I would love to have you join so I can support and encourage you!
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The Weekly Live Q/A calls that come with the HTL Bundle are recorded calls, so you will have access to the replays.
Your 8 Live Call bundle starts the week of your HTL Program purchase and runs consecutively.
If you know you are going to miss a call in advance, you will have a designated private channel in the HTL Private Community (only available to those who signed up for Live Calls) where you can pre-submit questions for Colette to answer on the call so you can catch it on the replay.
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If you desire to leave your current relationship and you identify as a woman feeling called to do that - this program is for you.
Please be gracious with my broad use of woman/female/feminine/she/her, and find yourself completely held and welcome here.
The fine print.
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The How To Leave Program has a one-time fee of $697.
Payment plans are available for the HTL Program PLUS Private Community, the Bundle Option (which includes the HTL Program, Private Community and 8 Weekly Live Group Coaching Calls), and/or Private Coaching Session add-ons.
Payments must be up to date and in good standing to receive continued access.
Let's honor each other. If you miss a payment or need more time to catch up, please feel safe to let us know. Reach out to our team at: support@everywomanfree.com
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Please purchase this program only if you are confident in your desire to do so.
I wholeheartedly believe in the value of the HTL Program and have underpriced it specifically to make it more accessible. Since HTL is a digital product, I do not offer refunds.
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Your personal experience and story is held as sacred. Your data and personal details are kept private, as is any information you share in 1:1 private coaching sessions.
Please be aware - when you purchase the HTL program, you will need to create a profile in the hosting platform. This will require a name, however, other features of your profile are optional such as profile photo, etc. YOU ARE WELCOME TO USE AN ALIAS NAME OR IMAGE if you feel the need to do so.
Joining HTL acknowledges that you will take personal ownership of your privacy.
If you choose to join the full access HTL Private Community, please know that this community is only available for HTL members and is therefore an internal community. Please be aware - anything you share there (channels, chats, direct messages, etc.), you do so with the understanding that other HTL members will have access to view these, and you theirs.
For Live Calls, you may choose to use an alias name or image or remain off camera if you need extra privacy.
To preview the Full HTL Privacy Policy, HTL Community Code of Conduct and HTL Privacy Waiver please click here.
In keeping with an HTL commitment - let's honor each other and use our discretion.
For your privacy, the payment charge will show as EWF and not indicate the words How To Leave or HTL.
Program Options + Pricing
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The HTL Program
What's Included:
Immediate Access to The How To Leave Program (HTL)
7 Full Length Lessons: These 7 powerful lessons are specifically designed to build upon each other and lay the foundations of ever deepening courage, confidence and trust in your internal guidance system so that you can feel stable and secure as you chart your way forward. ($997 Market Value)
28 Guided Assignments To Go Deeper (PDFs): Each lesson comes with guided assignments and journal prompts to take you deeper into your truth, into your heart. They are specifically designed to facilitate the clarification you seek and to build the courage and confidence into your heart, mind, and body. ($497 Market Value)
BONUS: 4 Activation Meditations: These activation meditations are energetic transmissions directly from my heart to yours - from someone who has walked this path and KNOWS you can, too. You will receive a powerful channel of comfort, encouragement, and inspiration to ground you in faith as you soften into the safety of being held by the ever-present, everlasting arms of Truth+Love. ($197 Market Value)
Exclusive Pricing 1:1: Special discount rates for 1:1 HTL Coaching. I know the irreplaceable value of personal support throughout the process of massive change, and I am deeply grateful to have the opportunity to stand with and for you personally on your growth journey. ($1,297 Market Value)
Bonus 30 Minute 1:1 Private Coaching Session w/Colette: ($297 Market Value)
HTL Members Only Private Community - Lifetime Access: ($1,997 Market Value)
8 Weekly Live Q/A Group Coaching Calls w/Colette: ($1,997 Market Value)
Bonus Lesson: Navigating the Emotional Process of Leaving and the Pull to Return: ($497 Market Value)
The Drama Detox Guide: Your Ultimate Path to Radiance: ($497 Market Value)
Bonus 60 minute 1:1 Call with Colette: ($399 Market Value)
The HTL Program + Private Community Support
What's Included:
Everything in The HTL Program PLUS -
7 Full Length Lessons: These 7 powerful lessons are specifically designed to build upon each other and lay the foundations of ever deepening courage, confidence and trust in your internal guidance system so that you can feel stable and secure as you chart your way forward. ($997 Market Value)
28 Guided Assignments To Go Deeper (PDFs): Each lesson comes with guided assignments and journal prompts to take you deeper into your truth, into your heart. They are specifically designed to facilitate the clarification you seek and to build the courage and confidence into your heart, mind, and body. ($497 Market Value)
BONUS: 4 Activation Meditations: These activation meditations are energetic transmissions directly from my heart to yours - from someone who has walked this path and KNOWS you can, too. You will receive a powerful channel of comfort, encouragement, and inspiration to ground you in faith as you soften into the safety of being held by the ever-present, everlasting arms of Truth+Love. ($197 Market Value)
Exclusive Pricing 1:1: Special discount rates for 1:1 HTL Coaching. I know the irreplaceable value of personal support throughout the process of massive change, and I am deeply grateful to have the opportunity to stand with and for you personally on your growth journey. ($1,297 Market Value)
PLUS:
HTL Members Only Private Community - Lifetime Access: Let US be there with you, for you! The HTL Private Community includes:
Bonus HTL Content
Option to Submit Questions for Group Coaching
Group Chat Channels
Community Celebration + Encouragement
Exclusive Lives and Special Offers ($1,997 Market Value)
BONUS 30 Minute 1:1 Private Coaching Session w/Colette: I want you to succeed! This BONUS is my gift to you for finishing The HTL Program! This call is for YOU - so ask any questions you have or specific areas you would like coaching - I'm beyond thrilled to support you. ($297 Market Value)
8 Weekly Live Q/A Group Coaching Calls w/Colette: ($1,997 Market Value)
Bonus Lesson: Navigating the Emotional Process of Leaving and the Pull to Return: ($497 Market Value)
The Drama Detox Guide: Your Ultimate Path to Radiance: ($497 Market Value)
Bonus 60 minute 1:1 Call with Colette: ($399 Market Value)
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The HTL Program + Community PLUS
8 Weekly Live Calls
What's Included:
Everything in HTL + Private Community PLUS -
7 Full Length Lessons: These 7 powerful lessons are specifically designed to build upon each other and lay the foundations of ever deepening courage, confidence and trust in your internal guidance system so that you can feel stable and secure as you chart your way forward. ($997 Market Value)
28 Guided Assignments To Go Deeper (PDFs): Each lesson comes with guided assignments and journal prompts to take you deeper into your truth, into your heart. They are specifically designed to facilitate the clarification you seek and to build the courage and confidence into your heart, mind, and body. ($497 Market Value)
BONUS: 4 Activation Meditations: These activation meditations are energetic transmissions directly from my heart to yours - from someone who has walked this path and KNOWS you can, too. You will receive a powerful channel of comfort, encouragement, and inspiration to ground you in faith as you soften into the safety of being held by the ever-present, everlasting arms of Truth+Love. ($197 Market Value)
Exclusive Pricing 1:1: Special discount rates for 1:1 HTL Coaching. I know the irreplaceable value of personal support throughout the process of massive change, and I am deeply grateful to have the opportunity to stand with and for you personally on your growth journey. ($1,297 Market Value)
Bonus 30 Minute 1:1 Private Coaching Session w/Colette: I want you to succeed! This BONUS is my gift to you for finishing The HTL Program! This call is for YOU - so ask any questions you have or specific areas you would like coaching - I'm beyond thrilled to support you. ($297 Market Value)
HTL Members Only Private Community - Lifetime Access: Let US be there for you! The HTL Private Community includes: Private Community
Bonus HTL Content
Option to Submit Questions for Group Coaching
Group Chat Channels
Community Celebration + Encouragement
Exclusive Lives and Special Offers ($1,997 Market Value)
PLUS:
8 Weekly LIVE Q/A Group Coaching Calls w/Colette: Get the most out of this program by going deeper every week. Join Colette + your HTL sisters for live coaching calls (60-90 min). These calls are for you to ask anything and be deeply supported on your HTL journey. ($1,997 Market Value)
BONUS - Special Lesson on Navigating the Emotional Process of Leaving and the Pull to Return: Understanding the emotional complexities that can arise after leaving (fear, grief, nostalgia, loneliness, wanting to return to your ex, etc). Strengthening strategies to honor yourself and your emotional process so you can stay anchored in your truth as you move forward without falling back into old patterns. ($497 Market Value)
BONUS - The Drama Detox Guide: Your Ultimate Path to Radiance: A Breakthrough Guide to HEAL your toxic relationship cycles. Learn why every bit of drama steals your radiance—the very essence that fuels your vitality, youthfulness, and ability to attract the love and life opportunities you long for. ($497 Market Value)
Bonus 60 Minute 1:1 Call w/ Colette: Special Edition Private Coaching Call for you to use anytime during your 8 Weekly Live Calls! ($399 Market Value)